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17:05 yep. I'm quite likely to have multiples if we ever do, which has me seriously reconsidering any at all. I would love any kid I had the privilege to care for. That doesn't mean I would be able to meet all their needs -- or most needs often enough, which is what any 'good *enough*' parent would aim for: sustainable humility. And adopting has a solid advantage here: no baby phase with the constant keep-them-alive tasks, almost certainly unsupported by any other adults on at *some* of what will or might be involved. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aVT1z5bGj1Y