Post #3021371

I'm super bad at knowing when a guy is flirting with me but I'm even worse at knowing when a woman is. I'm most definitely bi-curious and the person knows this but I'm the same age as her mother though her mother had kids before she hit 20. I've been struggling trying to understand if I'm really seeing what I'm seeing and I asked a lesbian couple I've known for 15 years for help but they're on a writing grind, their books are due to go to the editor to so no time. I asked my friend, a straight guy, but a guy who fantasizes about Jeff Goldblum, he's definitely queer or gender fluid. I laid out all the facts. He said ahhhh yeah she likes you, like more than, like let's just say a lot. That is wild. She's such a good kid and fun too. She's not monogamous doesn't believe in it which is cool I guess. Her partner is gorgeous. This whole LGBTQI+ thing is not new to me but it is new to me when it comes to being open about it. Wouldn't say I was closeted I was in denial and kept quiet maybe? Maybe that's being closeted what the fuck do I know