Post #2824459

I always have trouble with this perspective. Wouldn't you put your private life before yet another job? It would have to be a very unique dream job before I would put it before a potential life partner It has to go so badly wrong for this to become an issue 1. Firstly, nothing serious might come of it. Stopping to date isn't an issue then 2. I'd not get serious with someone who's not mentally acting like an adult. Working with an ex partner should be fine on a professional level. I don't need to like every one of my coworkers on a personal level 3. If we did get serious _and_ then break up _and_ my judgement is off about their ability to act rationally at work, I can find another job. After all, there's nothing tying me to this place if I don't live here with a partner Especially (as it is here) when you don't work with each other daily, I'd take the low odds of losing my job for the chance to find a life partner Not saying you should as well. I just don't understand it