Post #2824442
2026-02-27 18:23 UTC
Tbf, I see **you** as more of the issue than anything.
You’re a leader at work and have gotten way too involved in the personal lives of your coworker and subordinate, regardless of intent.
My advice is to look outside of work for interpersonal and romantic interests. You are already experiencing the consequences of your involvement, and the way you feel about this situation is the signal you should be listening to and taking heed of.
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@Bread@sh.itjust.works 2026-02-27 19:05
Like you said, I didn't ask for this information, it was just thrusted upon me. Even if I did nothing whatsoever, the situation would have still existed with or without that knowledge. Not knowing makes it worse to be honest as now I know to not move with reckless abandon. Looking outside isn't always an option. Finding the type of person I like is not usually done by looking outside of work unfortunately.