Post #2824439
2026-02-27 16:20 UTC
This is not complicated at all. Ask her out and let her choose. Have a polite, but not too close relationship to the guy who is basically your subordinate. If you think he might harm himself, take action, but other than that your not responsible for his wellbeing.
Also, it sounds to me that you are trying to be absolutely fair to this guy, not only in this thread but also at work, but not necessarily like him too much. I’m also pretty certain that she was just polite to him and didn’t want to upset him. Talk with your love interest, than you will know.
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@Bread@sh.itjust.works 2026-02-27 16:32
If I can't/won't see both sides of the coin, am I really a good leader? I wouldn't think so. "I’m also pretty certain that she was just polite to him and didn’t want to upset him." That may be the case and it seems that way if she is still happy to talk to me as she does. I have been on both sides of this and it certainly sucks to be in the other position. I am trying to handle this delicately if I can. It doesn't help that he is constantly trying to hang out with me.