Post #2824411
2026-05-12 11:36 UTC
@cf@todon.eu
🔥 Yeah I would definitely agree with the notion of "Aimée is host because she's the one that's fronting the most, not the other way around."
But she also seems to be "the default". What I mean by that, is for example when we wake up, usually she's in front.
Or for example June (🫦) and Sara (💄) have a really hard time holding on to the front, when a situation, that brought them out, is over. And even though nobody is actively initiating a switch, so far it was always Aimée that switched in then.
(Interestingly, yesterday I was in front when we woke up. Also a few other things make it seem, like a host change might be happening kinda naturally atm.)
Sadly we don't really have any inner communication and still have a hard time switching on purpose (although it's a bit easier for "Aimée 🔄 Me" than "Aimée / Me 🔄 any other headmate"), so yeah I guess externalizing communication is the only viable way.
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@cf@todon.eu 2026-05-12 11:46
@little_foxtoy@bark.lgbt Wouldn't say it's the only way, more a learning tool. There's the obvious primary result of getting a thought from A to B, but also the secondary effect that y'all get in the habit of completely forming these thoughts and directing each other to take them in.