Post #2811952
2026-05-24 15:48 UTC
Spring is in the air, and someone presenting themselves as interested in fucking rationalist males has authored a piece about how said men can dress a bit better and maybe, just maybe, get laid:
lesswrong.com/…/basic-principles-for-dressing-bet…
as usual, the real comedy is in the comments
I dress like a schlub specifically to avoid advertising my sexual availability - lesswrong.com/…/basic-principles-for-dressing-bet…
“The item that I currently wear that expresses the most about me is my Oura ring followed by barefoot shoes.” - strangely not the same as the commenter above
"When it comes to slim fit jeans I have the impression that fashion changed. Five years ago they were seen as great and now they don’t? Is that accurate?“
“Overall, I think it makes the most sense to go to the pareto frontier here. You can spend 300-400 total getting some nice looking earth tone button-ups, well-fitting pants that aren’t blue jeans, trim your beard, get regular haircuts from an actual salon, shower daily, and make sure you smell decent.”
”[…] when I look at the examples, what occurs to me is that dressing like the example would cause me to stick out and make it obvious to others I am making a special effort, and I’d rather not do that."
“I was hoping for more fashion theory; the why. “
“It is fascinating to receive such communiqués of strange news from another star. I would not know, without your saying so, that the set of 10 pictures are intended to be good examples and not bad examples.”
”[…] it is far more important that whatever my spouse wears be a pleasant texture to put my face on, most buttondown material fails this criterion but linen passes” - actually this is just cute
Replies (3)
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@blakestacey@awful.systems 2026-05-24 18:16
If, like some of my male housemates you object on principle to the concept of a bag then you need to watch Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade again.
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@o7___o7@awful.systems 2026-05-24 19:46
You can lead a horse to water hu you cant prevent it from Bayesing out.
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@Amoeba_Girl@awful.systems 2026-05-24 20:46
“It is fascinating to receive such communiqués of strange news from another star. I would not know, without your saying so, that the set of 10 pictures are intended to be good examples and not bad examples.” To be fair most of said outfits read as “rich arsehole” to me, which I do not find attractive. Yellow shirt guy I would suspect to be a white supremacist. As far as men’s fashion goes, I’ve seen much worse, though the bits I do like here feel fairly gay-coded to me so uh whatever.