Post #2724532
2026-05-20 11:45 UTC
Or … you could let people label or not label themselves, and not worry about that at all.
My wife is very non-binary (moreso than me) and says if anyone tries to put her in a box like that she’ll not talk to them again.
She uses female pronouns because others expect one or the other, especially where we live.
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@Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 2026-05-20 12:34
My mum didn’t understand why I was trans, because she’s cis-agender. She thinks being trans is some kind of obsession, and she scolded Me for talking about gender roles with My younger sister, who turned out to be trans. She doesn’t know that having an internal sense of gender affinity is normal. She thinks most cis people are like her. The conflation of cis-agender people and cis-affinity people is dangerous. It’s harmed My family. We lost a young one to suicide. I’m certain it’s killed other people too. I’m gonna do everything I can to build a better set of tools for discussing gender and helping people find their own truth. Because ignorance costs lives.