Post #26776
2025-12-03 16:37 UTC
If you want kids there’s a few things to consider.
Graduate highschool then get married before kids.
Kids are physically easier when you’re younger.
No one is ever really ready for kids, but you should have some level of financial stability and be prepared to have significantly less freedom.
Be purposeful in what you spend money on. You don’t need the best of everything, especially when starting a new hobby. You can find someone spending absurd amounts on anything, but no one can do that on everything.
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@sbv@sh.itjust.works 2025-12-04 02:40
Everything you said is spot on. I had kids older. I don’t agree with OPs advice for not having kids in your twenties. I’d argue a planned pregnancy in your twenties is the way to go.