Elektrine lite

← Feed

@lotharmatthaeus@lemmy.zip

Post #2650293

2026-05-15 18:26 UTC

Am I trans just because I sometimes would like to know how it would be to have a vulva? Or because I sometimes jerk off to women with dicks? Am I gay because I sometimes fantasise about someone cuming inside my butt?

Replies (3)

  • @velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-05-15 19:10

    I’m not trans and I still wonder what it would be like to have a penis. My male partner is straight and insanely attracted to trans women. Depends, do you fantasize about a guy cumming inside your butt or a woman? Lol It’s a whole spectrum out there. Call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable.

    Open ##2650292

  • @N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-05-16 00:38

    like to know how it would be to have a vulva I see, you are asking the right questions. Am I gay because I sometimes fantasise about someone cuming inside my butt? have you imagined who’d do that?

    Open ##2655232

  • @Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 2026-05-16 04:39

    And honestly, my answer to that is “who fucking cares”. If you want to call yourself something because it makes you feel better, you should. If you don’t, you don’t. You don’t need to call yourself anything to want, do or be anything. In my opinion, one of the worst things society has done since the 80s is to abandon the trend towards broad and unimportant distinctions, and move hard into “look all these hyperspecific labels that apply to me!”

    Open ##2657855