Post #2593927

i feel like despite seven years of this i havent made any meaningful progress toward not being seen as a man. when most of the people in my city treat me like a man even when im very clearly presenting fem, it hurts :( im constantly reminded that ive done a terrible job of chasing my transition goals, and without the recognition of others im effectively still living as a man. going out in public is just an exercise in highlighting everything im dysphoric about and everything that leads others to calling me he/him forget passing, i dont even look like im even trying to present fem; theyre not even seeing me and thinking "transfem", they just look at me and see a guy in a dress and treat me accordingly i dont know what im doing wrong but it hurts to know ive failed so badly and that ill probably never be treated as fem by randos in general im sad