Post #2502094

2022-11-23 19:57 UTC

@MaryPot@masto.ai @Deglassco@mastodon.social That’s the ideal! 🙌🏽. And no one has to do anything! During that process though, you’re also choosing if and/or how you want to have peace and when as well. Everybody has different life experiences, triggers, stresses, etc. that warrant different responses! ☺️

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@MaryPot@masto.ai 2022-11-23 20:26

@kaydubatl@mastodon.world @Deglassco@mastodon.social Most people have a negative response to being disrepected and bullied. Bullies do that to anyone they can get to - for size, race, handicaps, interests or just "because". Bullying behaviour by any user should not be tolerated by any confederated server. It brings no good. I would think(hope!) that something like that would be in the Fediverse Charter.

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@MaryPot@masto.ai 2022-11-23 20:34

@kaydubatl@mastodon.world @Deglassco@mastodon.social Some things only trigger a few - snakes or swearing. Those few of us that don't want to see that stuff can block the user. I hope that Mastodon admins have a system where the more a user gets muted and/or blocked, the closer a look they take at that user. Bullying is a whole other thing and should be reported, then blocked/muted. I would hope that the admins here agree that bullying is out. Let the bullies go back to Birdville or Trump Social.

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@MaryPot@masto.ai 2022-11-23 20:40

@kaydubatl@mastodon.world @Deglassco@mastodon.social I got an in-your-face porn picture in my federated feed the other day. Innocent server - very not innocent picture. I would definitely like it if I could block that server that allow porn, to be honest. I guess I am asking what is bad enough for enough people that it should be on separate servers. i would say it should be something (bad?) people DO on here, not what people ARE. If you do post porn, do harass/bully, do post fake news - those are my suggestions.

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@MaryPot@masto.ai 2022-11-23 22:05

@kaydubatl@mastodon.world @Deglassco@mastodon.social I agree. It will be interesting to see where the line goes between letting individual users block/mute and where there will be a call for separate servers, so that users don't have to block each eg. porn poster individually. On FB, admins can put users on suspension, giving them a chance to straighten out - and then they can block them from their group/page. Something similar should be doable here.

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