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The "friends" my husband had, well his friend's husband, invited him to D&D he hosted. He was not interested. The guy begged, utterly begged him, he declined. I said, I will! I've always wanted to play. They declined, and I was really confused. Realized a few months later after talking to the host's wife more, it was a boys club, and I wasnt allowed. My husband declined because he knew they guys there, and well, knew who they were. The type to make the joke"hey I have a dishwasher!" and point to their wife, cringe shit. I was new, and just hadnt figured them out yet. My circle of friends was never like that. They divorced, I must mention. My therapist is starting a new D&D therapy group next month after planning it for a year. So, im finally going to be ablevto learn to play! If I had an all lady D&D group and a dude wanted to join, a dude could join, anyone could. Hell (fuck EA and the sims) but If I had a sims party, whatever that may be, a guy could come to that too. Im not different in front of people, for better or worse, I am the same for everyone.