Post #2241579

@taedryn@anarres.family how do I pick "sex is something I dislike" AND "sex is hugely important to me" at the same time? I seem to be a variant of ace where instead of there being a peaceful unoccupied room where sexuality might sit, there's a smouldering trash heap of resentment and disappointment. I leave that room door closed. I don't want to say incel or femcel because I developed this stance long before those were a thing and I have taken care not to think too closely about them.