If I had a nickel for every disabled sapphic transfemme I’ve met on OkCupid who I’ve ended up loving and who is into horror, has witchy vibes & DID, is into nerdy stuff like gaming and anime, & who I’ve met just before they started medical transition, I’d have 2 nickels, which isn’t a lot but it’s weird that it happened twice. (There’s a lot more stuff they have in common too, and I’ve finally been able to introduce them so they’re finding EVEN MORE stuff they overlap on, but it is actually uncanny how much alike they are, and completely predictable I would love both of them very much. As my partner (the first one) said today I Very Clearly Have A Type now)