Post #1821454

2026-04-30 21:54 UTC

@tress@lgbtqia.space a bunch of meta questions, if you don't mind - what makes you want to talk about it? there's lot of different reasons I could think of - an exhibitionist streak, desire to explore, desire to explain/teach, desire to attack/change social conventions, connecting with likeminded folks (kinksters?), inspiration/research for writing, ...? Do you just want to share what's going on inside you, or is there a performance element? Why no biting?

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@tress@lgbtqia.space 2026-05-01 09:29

@runningoff@lgbtqia.space ooh, excellent questions, thank you for the input too. What makes me want to talk about it? It feels like a mix of many things. I have asked this in the past in other circles and I guess answering a question about what hearing "good girl" means to me made me excited to talk about more stuff. I crave a small amount of social interaction. Exhibitionism might play a bit into that, something about it tingles feelings near my praise kink, though I'm not yet sure how to place that. I guess I have never really explored what exhibitionism is and what it can mean for people - and me. I enjoy thinking and talking about lewd things. There's also a desire to (over)share because it is something I enjoy. Being asked questions would be a way to be able to indulge in that without unfiltered infodumping about everything that comes to my mind. Connecting with interesting people doesn't feel like the main focus, but I would enjoy that. Oh, and I'm interested where my experiences and interests lie compared to other people - how my personal kinks might be different from what other people see, or expect, in it. I have this thought that I don't quite feel like I "belong" in lewd or kink-related spaces - because I have kind of been told so in the past and I feel much… softer than the comparative "roughness" I've seen or read (mostly with regards to all aspects of bdsm I guess). There might be more, but that is what comes to my mind right now, especially thanks to your questions. Re: biting I don't like being bitten and I feel it's not a nice thing to do - and I don't like doing things to other people that are not nice - especially inflicting pain. Also, I would be a bad girl if I did that and that's definitely not who I am. Another aspect is that of "being" a husky, but there are a couple of things to unpack there for context: I've been in the furry fandom for decades and created a personal representation of myself that is essentially just me, but fluffy, anthropomorphic, husky (and more physically idealised). I am human, but wouldn't mind being husky-me. So, I also respond to "husky", have a great excuse for some fun vocal tics where appropriate and would wag a tail if I had one. And dogs aren't supposed to bite. And I'm proud of sticking to that.

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