Post #1787159
2026-04-29 19:12 UTC
apropos of oh nothing. if a man is being weird in yr dms, please resist the urge to be like "oh it's not a big deal, he's probably fine, people seem to be okay with him" because if he is doing it to you, he's probably doing it to (several) other people as well
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@uhhuhthem@438punk.house 2026-04-29 19:15
(this is a note to self after I overheard-- was not even involved in-- three women talking about a man who one of them was having a weird time with and it turns out he was being weird with all of them AND ME to varying degrees but all of us were just like idk wtv this is probably fine)
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@hi_cial@donphan.social 2026-04-29 22:06
@uhhuhthem@438punk.house tbh this transcends gender. if everyone seems fine w a woman who is harassing n threatening in dms she also is doing it to others.... (thx for that life lesson, baedelists...)