Post #1746641

I have neighbours like that. I'm usually very self conscious about being the one who's noisy but they can get it, I don't care. Their kids, barely teenagers, are still up when we go to bed, screaming at each other in their bathroom where we can hear them verbatim. Or being out in the evening on their trampoline in the front yard, we can pretty much join the conversation. I've been in the situation where I heard people moving their furniture around almost daily. It's usually not what you think it is. Most people have no idea how their noise affects others. It can just be someone falling in their seat on the couch that can make it sound like they're moving the couch. This is why our couch is up against the wall, so it doesn't move. We have those little felt things under chair legs to prevent scraping noise. We take our shoes off inside the house. And if we do watch movies, tv or listen to music, even when having a modest party, we keep the music at a reasonable volume so we can still have a conversation. It's common decency that loads of people don't do because they are inconsiderate. Not because they're inherently bad people, they just haven't been taught to take others into account. And they get away with it because those who do, usually avoid confrontation.