Post #1683289
2026-03-09 06:28 UTC
@Robo105 @Mab_813 That's shit of you. Step up and step in yourself. Stop blaming the woman for not doing the thing you stupidly believe, from your complete lack of experience, will end well for them.
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@trisschen@plural.cafe 2026-03-09 07:52
@Rhube @Robo105 @Mab_813 This. Also, don’t worry about stepping in in a situation that seems off even when you’re not sure: It’s relatively easy to tell someone on your own side to step back in case it was fine after all and that would be merely a tiny bit awkward, as opposed to the horror of helplessness while everyone around just keeps watching waiting for it to get 'bad enough' (aka too late).
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@Robo105@mastodon.social 2026-03-09 15:29
@Rhube @Mab_813 Others have made the same point and I can only agree that I was wrong. It is not the woman's responsibility and I admit my mistake