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@taedryn Well. It's had its positives and negatives. A lot of the negative is that I had so much disincentive to explore any sexuality I had, and I certainly didn't have any incentive, so I missed the experience of a lot of social cues and nuances. This has certainly resulted in misunderstandings over the years. On the other hand, it's nice to not be led around by my chin-chin back in the old days, nor by my taco now. I have never quite understood why some people act with this.... well, drive, for lack of a better way of putting it. I will say one thing that has helped a great deal: The best thing for me is to just be me, embrace my aceness. Okay, I'm ace. Others will occasionally do non-ace things. Cool on them for that. Trying to be something I'm not and can never be for them, even if it is to try to help them, just does not work.