Post #1649614

2026-03-26 19:42 UTC

@taedryn I chose 'at peace' cause it was a relief to realise I wasn't alone and it was valid not to crave sex or see it as a basic need. But... I wonder if everyone clocked I was ace before I did, cause (unless I'm completely oblivious, which is possible!), I rarely got flirted with anyway. Eg I'd go out with my then female-presenting friend and fae'd get attention from more than one guy, and I'd just be the politely-acknowledged sidekick (I'm in a relationship, but they didn't know that!). 1/2

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@alicemcalicepants@ohai.social 2026-03-26 19:44

@taedryn 2/2 Either that or it's something about my face/how I interact, like some friends I've known for years will be like 'omg' if I come out with an innuendo or something, like I've unintentionally cultivated this wholesome, innocent image (maybe because I look younger than I am (which could be down to autism) and am very quiet), and I they would still have that impression even if I was super horny inside, idk.

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