Post #1480874
2026-04-20 12:57 UTC
Replies (10)
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@Nocta_Senestra@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 13:00
not-absolutely-amazing-but-still-life-changing-thing (except for the fascist thing this one would be actually useful if we're like a thousand to take it) (10 is a lot but removing from existence implies they never existed in the first place so they would just be replaced by other fascists, it won't scare the others or anything)
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@sinuscardinal@biscuit.town 2026-04-20 13:07
@Nocta_Senestra the fact that I didn't even hesitate before picking "nesting partner"
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@Lujie@piaille.fr 2026-04-20 13:40
@Nocta_Senestra I was going for the voice then I saw the option to banish fascists. I'm lucky enough to already have a decent apartment, don't care about genitals, and, i'm too poly and autistic to live with someone.
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@melunaka@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 14:48
@Nocta_Senestra I think it’s the hardest poll I’ve ever seen
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@Vefhtagn@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 15:07
@Nocta_Senestra le fait que j'ai pas mis une demi seconde avant de répondre fait il de moi une mauvaise personnes, vous avez 3 heures.....
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@modnarwave@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 16:39
@Nocta_Senestra en soi, 10 fascistes on peut s'en débarrasser à la main déjà, le reste c'est moins évident
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@loyhena@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 17:09
@Nocta_Senestra Was very hard but the survival instinct to have a place I can't be kicked out from was stronger than the need to feel good abt my body lol
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@princesse@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-20 18:56
@Nocta_Senestra i can't choose, it's too difficult :blob_cat_cry: but i never had a partner, so there's a part of me that's like "it must feel good to have a partner you love with you"…
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@irrlicht@social.lithio.fr 2026-04-20 20:26
@Nocta_Senestra Damn that shit is hard The 10 fascists doesn't strike me has important. It's not 10 fascists who are important. I mean, even if you take Trump and Retailleau out and other, fascism will not stop rising just for that. Systemic issues require systemic solutions. Based on my current life, knowing what I know: genital > apartment > partner > voice > fascist Having the right genital has made my life so much better. I could probably learn to live with the wrong genitals in an apartment. That obviously better. But I was so miserable before. But I'm also wildly aware that many people don't have that fucking choice, at all, so… I don't want to be insensitive. I mean, apartment is so fucking important, but I also live with very high odds I'll get one with my current situation… it would probably be different if I hadn't a chance of ever getting one. Everything else I know I can get or live with what I'm capable of. The answers are so much different depending on self-confidence and what one learned with their transition (in my opinion)
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@Milouchkna@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-23 11:45
@Nocta_Senestra eh, honestly i dunno... my voice i don't care at all, i'd rather learn sign language --" banishing fascists is kinda basically useless. now, that leaves apartment, genitals and nesting partner... the genitals thingy sounds good in theory but in practice i don't really care much so eh, pass ? (tho i'd love to switch) the apartment... i don't think i'll ever have the ability to pay the downpayment in the first place to secure the mortgage and the buying of the apartment... and i'm not sure i'd want to remain in the same place for a decade so pass too ! now the nesting partner... i'm not sure either haha i'm aromantic and a relationship anarchist : i'd need more than one person, for various different times and different needs of intimacy. and if it's someone i need to live with : hard pass, no thank ya. if it's very sporadic and more or less ephemeral and with multiple partners : heck yes, would love to. (i already do it in a way, tho)