Post #1395528
2026-04-18 12:16 UTC
Okay chat I'm about ready to cry.
I've been looking into moving away from conversations.im server because turns out, it doesn't play nice with OEMEO. Turns out, I've been really excited for Movim. And the server I decided to try out was Queer Spark.
A total stranger comes into this lobby-thing I made, and we've been talking and trading links back n forth. Havin' a good time.
Eventually, I get an Q.S account. I post, into my little lobby, with my shiny new account.
And, well, check screenshot.
I am absolutely fucking gutted. Not only did I not get a chance to explain myself (uh, valid, tbh), but I don't know what the fuck is going on and never got a chance to ask.
I genuinely thought, "hey, a cool queer thing for marginalized folx!" and left it at that. But gotDAMN I can't even do that anymore! Everything fucking sucks!
I'm doubly upset because (I assume) they are also BIPOC, so I'm taking their words extra seriously, because shit like this keeps happening to us.
tldrWhat the fuck is going on with Queer Spark that would warrant such a reaction?Can anyone help to clue me in? Anyone? Or am I doomed to just trust no bitch unless I do it myself?
This fucking sucks.
I want the full story.I am sick of being burned as I keep moving without knowing the full story, context, and history of anything I may be involved in.
Replies (2)
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@OliviaVespera@spacey.space 2026-04-18 12:20
@albinanigans There's just not enough to go on. I appreciate you're looking into options and trying new platforms out. I'm keeping track of your progress here.
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@greyor@goblin.technology 2026-04-18 13:35
@albinanigans goddamn i'm sorry. That is sad and stressful. 💙 I don't know any XMPP servers personally since I've always just run my own. The "official" list may be worth checking but I can't vouch for any of them myself: https://providers.xmpp.net/