Post #1236413
2026-04-11 19:12 UTC
And I know a lot of us don't want to believe that, because... they're awful. But statistically, some of us are gonna be.
Denying N's femaleness because they're an awful person makes no more sense than denying Kristi's femaleness. She's a fucking fascist monster, but still a woman.
Gender identity is not contingent on good behaviour.
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@Tattie@eldritch.cafe 2026-04-11 19:14
But maybe a big reason we move to deny N's transness is because we know that every transfeminine person is judged by the actions of the worst of us. And that's the real fucking problem here. 18/
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@futzle@old.mermaid.town 2026-04-12 04:08
@Tattie I’m _so_ watching the language of people who talk about N. Now is when we learn who among us grants trans folk our gender only conditionally.
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@rpbook@gts.phillipsuk.org 2026-04-12 09:04
@Tattie agreed. I've always said that any large group of people will include arseholes. There are lots of trans people, therefore some trans people are arseholes. For that to not be true, trans people would have to be something other than human.