Post #1072251
2026-04-11 15:09 UTC
It’s something young women/men should be aware of that they automatically exclude themselves from a huge part of the dating pool when they make a decision like that.
And nothing of value is lost. Who wants to date someone with weird moralistic hangups about sex, unless they share those hangups?
Replies (1)
-
@Darcranium@lemmy.world 2026-04-12 16:52
It’s hard to predict who you will fall for in 2,5, or 10 years. You will want to be honest with that person, and it might turn them off to know your history. Luckily, after enough time has passed, and you’ve really worked on yourself, it shouldn’t really matter what you did 10-20 years ago. In my opinion, you are better off finding yourself a consistent fuck-buddy for in between relationships. A mutual arrangement, rather than a bunch if one night stands, is much safer for your mental health (assuming no one catches feelings).